25 LIFE LESSONS






Life is white and could be black
But the larger part is grey
25 has been a journey
To becoming a sharpened spear
Every experience is an abrasion
Wearing me out by sharpening my end
Some times it feels like I have lived an eternity and other times I am reminded at I still have a long way to go.



My love with 25 was short but I will love to describe  it with three words
I. Grew. Up.
My thought pattern changed, my priorities shifted and my ideology is being constantly  stretched, twisted, and redefined through experiences and the people I meet.
Black and white are not the same thing so also people are different
My journey with 25 taught  alot of things and I will love to share it with you.
This is my own 25 things I learnt at age 25
1. Life does not revolve around you; I mean life has a principle. Do well and follow through, So stop making excuses and find out what life wants to teach you. After all, life also knows what you have planned to achieve, that’s why it tested all the time. God is your only hope!
2. There are alot of people who seem mature but have baby's heart ,so you must learn to deal carefully with them especially in words.
3. I  learnt that struggle is definitely real, if you haven’t experienced it yet, you will – in your own way and with your own obstacles.
4.   Standing your ground is important, fight for what you believe.
5. People will surely hurt you its in their DNA, learn to deal with hurts.
6. Love has nothing to do with looks, but everything to do with time, trust, interest and quality attention.
7.   Enjoy your singlehood ,its not a plague.
8. Nobody can love you if you dont learn to love yourself
9. Be accountable
10. Be submissive to authority
11. Value yourself
12. Patience is a virtue
13. Be your own kind of trend
14. Dont destroy relationships you have built over years because you got married or because you have a boyfriend or girlfriend.
15. People deserve second chances
16. Nobody is perfect and we all have our flaws.
17. Crying is not a sign of weakness but also remember to always draw strength from God. You are not alone!
18. Take pictures of yourself and the people you meet now that you have a chance to do so.
19. Friendship still works
20. First impressions are completely useless 50 percent of the time.





21.  Have fun, explore  and do something different.
22. Dont joke with your health, Your health is your life.
23.Money makes life easier only when the money is yours,  free and clean. Having money is a big deal!
24.  Take good care of yours, spend money on yourself, you earned it.
25. Marriage talk is a real deal, prepare for it.

     Leave things that hurt you, dont speak evil of anyone, thank those who have rejected you or said no to you. Be free with people and enjoy the company of  your friends & family who are there for you.

As for us, we have all of these great witnesses who encircle us like clouds. So we must let go of every wound that has pierced us and the sin we so easily fall into. Then we will be able to run life’s marathon race with passion and determination, for the path has been already marked out before us. Hebrews 12:1 (TPT)

Remember you have a long way to go, so travel light and enjoy the ride.

Stick to this rules!


Comments

  1. Life lessons can be tough, especially when you gain the experience first hand. The experiences learnt first hand are usually the best and stick longer.
    Grateful for growth.
    Weldone Ebun. Thanks for sharing.

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